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Be responsible

“Wow. Congratulations! You are now a responsible man.”

How many times exactly have I heard that statement being made to a newly married person especially the men?

I have definitely lost count.

Excuse me. . .

What does it even mean to be responsible?

Does it then mean that a single person cannot or should not be responsible?

Here’s what I think:

If you are not responsible before marriage, you just might remain as such for a long time after you are married.

The anointing for responsibility will not just pour on you on your wedding day.

You have to take responsibility for your life every day starting from when you are a boy or girl and then continue to be responsible when you become a man/woman.

This begins with the knowledge of who you are and why you are here on earth.

It is called purpose discovery.

The height of irresponsibility is not taking charge of your life like you should. Living by chance instead of living intentionally is what I call it.

And how can you take charge of something you don’t even know? Seek to discover God’s purpose for your life today.

Stop making excuses for mediocrity and failure. Stop refusing to take responsibility for your wrongdoings. Stop being impulsive. Develop the virtue of self control instead. Groom yourself into being trustworthy, dependable and reliable. Learn to love yourself so that you can love others. Be open to learning the right things and the right way to live. Grow up. . .

That’s being responsible.

Hi single man/woman!

. . .Be responsible.

Your responsibility grows when you marry. It must be cultivated beforehand.

Or have you seen a farmer harvest fruits on the very same day he planted his crops?

Have a sense of direction. Be a good leader of your self on purpose way and then it will be easier to lead your wife as a good husband.

When you understand your purpose as a singe lady and already learned how to submit to your maker, you will be able to submit to His will in marriage and be a responsible wife and mother.

Be a responsible son/daughter, sister/brother, student/worker and friend first.

Don’t leave responsibility for marriage.

Hello married man/woman

. . .Be responsible too.

You need to make conscious efforts towards being a responsible person. Being a husband or wife doesn’t automatically make you a responsible person.

You have to BE responsible.

That’s a call to ACTION to the single and married alike.

Take a sincere assessment of your life and rid yourself of every form of irresponsibility.

Grace be multiplied unto you!

© OMOSEBI Mary Omolola, PhD

Summary – Building a Beautiful Marriage

E-book Available for just N1000
E-book Available for just N1000

Looking at our world today, it is rather sad what marriages look like. There are so many troubled marriages. Divorce rate is on the increase. Domestic violence is the order of the day. Many wish they never married their spouses. Many people are going through serious issues in their marriages away from the eye of the public.

Marriage is a building. The foundation of that building will determine its ability to withstand stress. Yes, there will be stress factors attacking your marital relationship but you can overcome all of them when you allow the All-powerful God who is the author of marriage and the people involved in the marriage to be the head of your home.

When God instituted marriage, He had a picture in mind. That picture was a perfectly beautiful one. I tell you, it is possible for you to enjoy the kind of marriage that God desires for you even in the midst of the turmoil that many marriages are going through in this day and age.

You don’t have to pretend to be happy in your marriage when you are not. You don’t have to endure your marriage when you can enjoy a beautiful one afterall. You can dream again in case you have given up on your marriage. You can have a peaceful and romantic relationship with your spouse.

This book by Dr (Mrs) Mary Omolola OMOSEBI will show you how to transform your dream of having a beautiful marriage into a reality.

This book addresses topical issues relating to marriage. You will find in it several helpful tips for virtually all aspects of your marriage.

Get a copy of this book and embrace the liberating truths therein and experience the birth or reinvigoration of a loving and joyful marriage!

Summary- The Beautiful Branch

The Beautiful Branch

Anyone who decides to live life outside God is setting himself or herself up for disaster. God is the essence of our living and staying connected to Him is the way to go. In Him we live, move and have our being. You cannot detach yourself from life and expect to live. This fact is the foundation upon which the truths in this book are built.
The Beautiful Branch is a great effort in placing women on the right track right from the foundation. Provisions have been made for every aspect of your life in this power packed book.
Freedom is all about knowing the truth, accepting the reality of that knowledge and combining the two to fulfilling God’s purpose for your life.
Every single word in this book has been delicately put down through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit to open your eyes to the revelation of God’s mind for you.
On the pages of The Beautiful Branch you will discover how to become the kind of woman that God wants you to be- A beautiful woman. This book will take you through what it means to have a beautiful spirit, career and appearance, be a beautiful single or wife and mother and encourage you to live to fulfil God’s purpose for your life by bearing beautiful fruits.
God wants you to be a total package of beauty and this book will show you how you can achieve that desire of God for you.
This book is filled with wise, practical, well illustrated, simple and proven principles that makes the reader to ask. . . How can I be beautiful, God’s way? And you wouldn’t have to look faraway for the answers because they are right on the pages of this book.
If you desire to be beautiful in every aspect of your life, read, study and meditate upon the awesome revelations in this book. Open your heart to receive the truths therein and see your life revolutionize.

Order your copy now if you are in Nigeria:

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What people are saying about The Beautiful Branch 



This book is sent by God to quench the thirst of our generation for a complete document that can produce women who are beautiful within and without. Hidden in it are real, down-to-earth, practical principles that make a woman a model of godliness and an asset to her husband and children.

If you are hungry to know the will of God for your life as a single lady, then start here. If you want to understand your roles and responsibilities as a wife, start here. If motherhood looks confusing and child upbringing is becoming a burden, start here. If you are having challenges handling your career in relation to other areas of your life then start here. Here is a refreshing, straightforward, balanced teaching on how to please God as a woman and still have a life you can be proud of.

I strongly recommend that you get this book, read it rapidly to grasp its strategy, read it thoughtfully to understand its principles and read it intentionally to put its strategic principles to use. The end result of knowing the truths contained here will certainly be that you become a beautiful branch in the Vine and that of course is what you are destined to be.
̶ Revd. Taiwo Opajobi
Senior Pastor,
University Baptist Church, Ogbomoso, Oyo State, Nigeria.


The Book The Beautiful Branch addresses practically all facets of the life of a female and with helpful practical examples. Spiced with numerous relevant and impactful scriptures, is a timely wake up call and an eye opener needed to reposition a woman to her rightful position. The book expresses the need for self realization, dedication and actualization. This is a must read and recommended to not just the female-man but all.

Prof. (Mrs) Adepoju Feyi Grace
 Professor/Clinical Ophthalmologist,
University of Ilorin, Ilorin, Nigeria.


The writer points to the fact that whatever one does in life must have biblical backing. This book covers issues of private and public lifestyle. She is of the opinion that one cannot claim to be a Christian and not live right in his or her relationship with people.

The writer adopted a writing style that makes it easy for readers to understand, assimilate and remember the content of each chapter. The word “Beautiful” is common to all the chapters. This word aligns with the title of the book. The word “Beautiful” also fits the major audience that this book addresses, which are females. However, its applicability fits the males too.

Also, one of the beauties of this book is that the chapters are beautifully knitted together into one book, titled- The Beautiful Branch. I welcome you into a fruitful journey as you read this book.
̶ Revd. Dr. Victor Bamidele Akerele
Senior Pastor, Champions’ Cathedral
FBC Festac Town, Lagos, Nigeria.


I will simply call The Beautiful Branch a total piece package to meet the total woman. Every woman should have it, read it and pass it on to others.
̶ Rev Stellamaris O. Ajetomobi
Leadership development and Missions
The Men of Issachar Vision, Ibadan, Nigeria


The Beautiful Branch is a great effort in placing women on the right track right from the foundation. The author did a very good work and gave very practicable advise for making women beautiful at every stage that a woman must pass through in life: singlehood, marriage, motherhood, career, etc.

 I am really thrilled about her section on making the single period as well as the career period beautiful. Sealing it all with godly women’s appearance is really commendable.

This is a book for every “female-man” of every age and a timely book for women counsellors, children ministers as well as pastors of all status for this end – time assignment of building beautiful lives for God.

Revd’ Elizabeth A. Bolaji, Ph D.
Ethicist, Counsellor and Lecturer
Baptist College of Theology, Oyo, Nigeria.


The Beautiful Branch is laden with profound and practical teachings. On these pages you will discover how to become the kind of woman that God wants you to be. This book is filled with wise, practical, well illustrated, simple and proven principles that makes the reader to ask. . . How can I be beautiful, God’s way? And you wouldn’t have to look faraway for the answers because they are right on the pages of this book.
This book will inspire you to fulfill your role as a woman at every phase of life. If you desire to be a balanced woman, this book is for you. I highly recommend this inspired, informative and instructive book to all. It is a must read for every woman.
̶ Prof. (Mrs) Oluwatooyin F. Osundahunsi
Sunday School Coordinator, Ondo Province 4 
Regional Coordinator, RCCG Region 22 / Professor of Food Science & Technology


So… I finished The Beautiful Branch. I don’t even know how to describe the book but I will try with these words-wonderful, amazing, real, simple and practical.

Every bit of it spoke to me. Every chapter and segment was easy to relate with. Using God’s words to explain these truths was just superb. I never thought about some things before e.g a child should be disciplined according to the instruction of the Holy Spirit not the way a parent wishes or thinks is best. I don’t know why that part struck me. I guess it looked to me like _so something as little (well not little as I now know) as disciplining a child requires instructions from Baba loke._

Wow! That’s just one of the many amazing truths I discovered in this book. I’ve been so blessed.

God bless you for blessing me with this book that is such a blessing. You’ll never cease to be a channel of blessing in Jesus mighty name. Amen

Oluwatoosin Oladejo (Blogger/Song Writer)


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Seek Forgiveness. . . Even If You Don’t Feel Like It

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Forgiveness is a necessary part of life, for the simple reason that “we all stumble in many things” (James 3:2).

When Jacob died, all of Joseph’s older brothers approached him with the plea to forgive their wicked treatment of him so many years before- even though Joseph had long forgiven them. They wanted to be sure.

In a similar way, without the cleansing power of forgiveness, at best marriage will be very hard duty. At worst it will be a disaster. No matter how hard two people try to love and please each other continuously, they will fail.

With failure comes hurt- and the ultimate relief for hurt is the soothing salve of forgiveness.

The key to maintaining an open, intimate, and happy marriage is to ask for and grant forgiveness quickly.

About the process of forgiveness, Jesus said,

“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Matt. 6:14-15).

His instruction is clear: God insists that we are to be forgivers, and marriage- probably more than any other relationship- presents frequent opportunities to practice.

To forgive means to give up resentment against or relinquish the desire to punish. By an act of your will, you let the person off the hook.

As a Christian, you do not do this under duress, scratching and screaming in protest.

Rather, you do it with a gentle spirit and love, as Paul urged,

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another even as God in Christ forgave you” (Eph. 4:32).

The real test of your ability to forgive comes on the battlefield when you and your spouse are ticked off and angry with each other.

That is when you need the power of the Holy Spirit and must ask, “God, please help me here. I need to move to forgiveness, because You have commanded me to do so. Please empower me and enable me to give up the right I think I have to punish my spouse and to forgive”.

This takes practice. You need to learn how to keep your relationship healthy by not burning excessive emotional energy on resentment. Grant forgiveness and ask for it freely- even when you don’t feel like it.

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Double Newness

 

Today is the day!

Omosebi E-books

A day of double newness- 16/08/16

By the grace of God, I have put together two new books.

☆ The Polished Single
☆ Building a Beautiful Marriage

I trust God that these books will bless you.

The Polished Single is a book primarily for singles. It is a guide to enjoying a purposeful single life. It will encourage you to make decisions that will make your today beautiful and ensure a wonderful future. It will help you maximise this period as you journey through the single phase of your life.

Building a Beautiful Marriage is for the married and those that are planning to get married. It will nourish you and in turn bless your marriage. This is a book for everyone who desires a beautiful marriage. You don’t have to endure your marriage. I desire that you will enjoy it instead and that’s why this book is here to spur you to have a beautiful one.

They are officially ready for purchase at a token price of N1000 from today.

They are both available as E-books.

For information on how to get these books, please visit RESOURCES

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Building a Beautiful Marriage

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Are you planning to get married?

If your answer is YES, then Building A Beautiful Marriage is for you.

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More about BUILDING A BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE:

Looking at our world today, it is rather sad what marriages look like. There are so many troubled marriages. Divorce rate is on the increase. Domestic violence is the order of the day. Many wish they never married their spouses. Many people are going through serious issues in their marriages away from the eye of the public.

Marriage is a building. The foundation of that building will determine its ability to withstand stress. Yes, there will be stress factors attacking your marital relationship but you can overcome all of them when you allow the All-powerful God who is the author of marriage and the people involved in the marriage to be the head of your home.

When God instituted marriage, He had a picture in mind. That picture was a perfectly beautiful one. I tell you, it is possible for you to enjoy the kind of marriage that God desires for you even in the midst of the turmoil that many marriages are going through in this day and age.

You don’t have to pretend to be happy in your marriage when you are not. You don’t have to endure your marriage when you can enjoy a beautiful one afterall. You can dream again in case you have given up on your marriage. You can have a peaceful and romantic relationship with your spouse.

This book by Dr (Mrs) Mary Omolola OMOSEBI will show you how to transform your dream of having a beautiful marriage into a reality.

This book addresses topical issues relating to marriage. You will find in it several helpful tips for virtually all aspects of your marriage.

Get a copy of this book and embrace the liberating truths therein and experience the birth or reinvigoration of a loving and joyful marriage!

Click here to read more about Building a Beautiful Marriage

 

 Click here to buy the HARD COPY / KINDLE edition on AMAZON

 

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The Polished Single

E-book Available for just N1000
E-book Available for just N1000

The Polished Single is a book for every single that desires to maximise his/her period of singleness. It is loaded with wisdom tips that will make you look back on your single days if you decide to migrate from the phase of singleness and say to yourself, “I had a beautiful single life”.

Order your copy now with your Card:

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More about THE POLISHED SINGLE: 

Singleness is a great blessing that many refuse to embrace. The single phase is encapsulated with a whole lot of benefits that if harnessed, would go a long way to better the life of the one who is blessed with this special gift.

You can be a single person and fulfill purpose. Actually, you should. Your life should not grind to a halt just because you are single. This is one big error that some singles fall into and you should not fall into the same pit they have. This book will guide you to avoid the pitfalls.

God desires that you live your life in such a way that pleases Him. Man’s original purpose is to worship God. This single phase poses a great opportunity for relationship building with your maker.

I am particularly concerned about the hike in the number of troubled marriages. I love the family institution and as such am saddened when I learn about a family on fire.

Having taken a very close look at many marriages over the years, I can infer that events prior marriage may have serious effects on the outcome of a marriage.
Decisions taken as a single will either make or mar your future. The way you live your life through this crucial phase will, in the long run, determine if you fulfill God’s ultimate purpose for your life or not.

The purpose of this book is to provide you with a guide to living a full single life the way it should be. This is imperative because some people move on from being single while others don’t. Whichever group you fall in, you need the wisdom in this inspiring book. Singleness is a constant for everyone though the duration may vary from one person to another. The contents will help shape your life and sharpen your horizon as a single man or lady. This book will inspire you to ensure that you maximize your singleness.

It is my desire that you enjoy a wonderful single life. . .

Click here to read more about The Polished Single

 

 Click here to buy the KINDLE edition on AMAZON

 

Or simply fill out the form on the RESOURCES page especially if you are interested in making bulk purchases as indicated below.

 

Special Offers

Make bulk purchases of the eBooks on this site and get awesome discounts:

Buy 6-10 copies at once and get 10% discount

Buy 11-24 copies at once and get 15% discount

Buy 25-49 copies at once and get 20% discount

Buy 50-99 copies at once and get 25% discount

Buy more than 100 copies at once and get 30% discount

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The Beautiful Branch

 

The book, The Beautiful Branch is a product of the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. It is power packed and has sold hundreds of copies; with numerous awesome feedback from readers. This book is a MUST HAVE FOR EVERY WOMAN who wants to live a full purposeful life and be beautiful through and through. It is a COMPLETE MANUAL FOR THE TOTAL WOMAN as it touches on all aspects of the woman’s life

. . . Men too should read this book. There are lots of wisdom you can glean from this inspiring piece.

You should get a copy for yourself, your wife, mother, fiancée, daughters, friends, etc. This is a perfect gift for you and them.

Click here to read more about THE BEAUTIFUL BRANCH

The Beautiful Branch comes with a WORKBOOK that will help you maximise the nourishment you get from the main text.

The Beautiful Branch is available as Hardcopy ( at just N1500) and you can order your copy now (shipping fee of N1000 included) making a total of N2500. Your order will be posted to you anywhere you are in Nigeria (Delivered within 4-7 days) . If you are within Nigeria pay with your card NOW:

FOR BANK DEPOSITS or TRANSFERS

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After paymentsend an email to thebeautifulbranch@gmail.com or call +2348158867545 to supply details of your location, number of copies paid for, telephone number and postal address (for the Hardcopy).

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You can make your orders for this book here if you are buying from outside Nigeria (shipping fee included). Your order will be shipped to you anywhere in the world:

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Make a wire transfer of $15 for the Hardcopy (postage fee included).

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What people are saying about The Beautiful Branch 



This book is sent by God to quench the thirst of our generation for a complete document that can produce women who are beautiful within and without. Hidden in it are real, down-to-earth, practical principles that make a woman a model of godliness and an asset to her husband and children.

If you are hungry to know the will of God for your life as a single lady, then start here. If you want to understand your roles and responsibilities as a wife, start here. If motherhood looks confusing and child upbringing is becoming a burden, start here. If you are having challenges handling your career in relation to other areas of your life then start here. Here is a refreshing, straightforward, balanced teaching on how to please God as a woman and still have a life you can be proud of.

I strongly recommend that you get this book, read it rapidly to grasp its strategy, read it thoughtfully to understand its principles and read it intentionally to put its strategic principles to use. The end result of knowing the truths contained here will certainly be that you become a beautiful branch in the Vine and that of course is what you are destined to be.
̶ Revd. Taiwo Opajobi
Senior Pastor,
University Baptist Church, Ogbomoso, Oyo State, Nigeria.


The Book The Beautiful Branch addresses practically all facets of the life of a female and with helpful practical examples. Spiced with numerous relevant and impactful scriptures, is a timely wake up call and an eye opener needed to reposition a woman to her rightful position. The book expresses the need for self realization, dedication and actualization. This is a must read and recommended to not just the female-man but all.

Prof. (Mrs) Adepoju Feyi Grace
 Professor/Clinical Ophthalmologist,
University of Ilorin, Ilorin, Nigeria.


The writer points to the fact that whatever one does in life must have biblical backing. This book covers issues of private and public lifestyle. She is of the opinion that one cannot claim to be a Christian and not live right in his or her relationship with people.

The writer adopted a writing style that makes it easy for readers to understand, assimilate and remember the content of each chapter. The word “Beautiful” is common to all the chapters. This word aligns with the title of the book. The word “Beautiful” also fits the major audience that this book addresses, which are females. However, its applicability fits the males too.

Also, one of the beauties of this book is that the chapters are beautifully knitted together into one book, titled- The Beautiful Branch. I welcome you into a fruitful journey as you read this book.
̶ Revd. Dr. Victor Bamidele Akerele
Senior Pastor, Champions’ Cathedral
FBC Festac Town, Lagos, Nigeria.


I will simply call The Beautiful Branch a total piece package to meet the total woman. Every woman should have it, read it and pass it on to others.
̶ Rev Stellamaris O. Ajetomobi
Leadership development and Missions
The Men of Issachar Vision, Ibadan, Nigeria


The Beautiful Branch is a great effort in placing women on the right track right from the foundation. The author did a very good work and gave very practicable advise for making women beautiful at every stage that a woman must pass through in life: singlehood, marriage, motherhood, career, etc.

 I am really thrilled about her section on making the single period as well as the career period beautiful. Sealing it all with godly women’s appearance is really commendable.

This is a book for every “female-man” of every age and a timely book for women counsellors, children ministers as well as pastors of all status for this end – time assignment of building beautiful lives for God.

Revd’ Elizabeth A. Bolaji, Ph D.
Ethicist, Counsellor and Lecturer
Baptist College of Theology, Oyo, Nigeria.


The Beautiful Branch is laden with profound and practical teachings. On these pages you will discover how to become the kind of woman that God wants you to be. This book is filled with wise, practical, well illustrated, simple and proven principles that makes the reader to ask. . . How can I be beautiful, God’s way? And you wouldn’t have to look faraway for the answers because they are right on the pages of this book.
This book will inspire you to fulfill your role as a woman at every phase of life. If you desire to be a balanced woman, this book is for you. I highly recommend this inspired, informative and instructive book to all. It is a must read for every woman.
̶ Prof. (Mrs) Oluwatooyin F. Osundahunsi
Sunday School Coordinator, Ondo Province 4 
Regional Coordinator, RCCG Region 22 / Professor of Food Science & Technology


So… I finished The Beautiful Branch. I don’t even know how to describe the book but I will try with these words-wonderful, amazing, real, simple and practical.

Every bit of it spoke to me. Every chapter and segment was easy to relate with. Using God’s words to explain these truths was just superb. I never thought about some things before e.g a child should be disciplined according to the instruction of the Holy Spirit not the way a parent wishes or thinks is best. I don’t know why that part struck me. I guess it looked to me like _so something as little (well not little as I now know) as disciplining a child requires instructions from Baba loke._

Wow! That’s just one of the many amazing truths I discovered in this book. I’ve been so blessed.

God bless you for blessing me with this book that is such a blessing. You’ll never cease to be a channel of blessing in Jesus mighty name. Amen

Oluwatoosin Oladejo (Blogger/Song Writer)



Watch this video to find out why you should read THE BEAUTIFUL BRANCH

 Click here to buy the eBook on AMAZON

 

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Several trusted men and women have read the book and have penned their thoughts about The Beautiful Branch.

You can read editorial reviews about this book Here

 

 

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Endorsement

Dear Women. . .

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I want us to learn something from a woman in the Bible to whom I am endeared. She is the woman in the book of Song of Solomon- the Shulamite.

The Shulamite told her man what she wanted from him. You may want to read the Song of Solomon to see for yourself.

Many of us just expect our men to know what to say or do.

Helloooo, they are not spirits.

We must learn to communicate our needs to them.

Communication is very important in any relationship marriage inclusive.

Stop assuming that he can read the expression on your face or that he knows why you are banging the door angrily and he’s chosen to ignore.

What will happen is that frustration builds up and you are all the more unhappy thus creating a wider gap between both of you. An inch today, and another inch tomorrow, the farther apart you are growing.

Instead of thinking that he’s just insensitive, tell him explicitly (and lovingly) what you want.

Even if you’re yet to be married, start learning how to talk it out respectfully.

Your courtship is meant for praying and TALKING. Talk, communicate about every (and I mean EVERY) possible thing.

You are on the dress rehearsal, rehearse well. It’ll aid your performance when the real show begins.

Save yourselves and your marriage the stress.

This applies to men too as much as it does to women but this post is directed at the women.

I will surely be back for the men. . .

In all, make sure you do this one thing:

COMMUNICATE!

-Omosebi Mary Omolola (PhD)
© 2016

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