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Whether You Are Caught Or Not

I remember back in high school how some students would take other students’ water in the hostel because there was water scarcity and rejoice that they were able to do so without being caught.

It was called tapping… They would say, “Tapping is a game until you are caught, then it becomes a sin”. It didn’t apply to only water but uniforms, books, pens, and other learning materials.

Does not being caught change the fact that you are a thief? I guess you sure know the answer to that question…

You are cheating on your spouse and because he/she cannot see what you do behind closed doors at your office or know when you are really in Abuja even though you claim to be in Lagos you think you are smart?

Yeah, you might be really good at ‘chopping and cleaning mouth’ but you forget that even though your spouse can’t trace your location and there is no meter to record how many times you have had sex with someone not him/her there is a God Omnipresent who is everywhere at all times and who sees everything that goes on under the sheets.

Some people will even say, “If he is discreet with his cheating, it’s because he respects you”. “Respect my foot”, I say. What form of respect is that by the way, when you are busy playing on your spouse’s intelligence. And worse off is your disrespect for the God of marriage who instituted marriage in the first place and who says that you should stay faithful to your spouse.

Some people will feel like they are smart not knowing they are cursing themselves. They forget God is watching them.

And can you stop saying you were pushed into sinning already? You always have a choice to do the right thing but most times we choose the easy way out.

Sin is sin whether you are caught or not.

You better stop deceiving yourself and repent of your evil ways.

God is watching all of us in 1000D.

Examine your ways!


“By failing to prepare you are preparing to fail”.

Do you know that statement? In case you didn’t know, it is true. Yeah, that statement right up there is very true.

When people look into their future, they have one of two reactions. The first reaction you can have about your future is that of fear. The other is optimism.

However, I make bold to say that just being optimistic cannot guarantee you of that beautiful future that you so much long for. You just have to do something to ensure that you have that beautiful future. You have to put in some work. It is not enough to wish for a successful future; you’ve got to WORK for it.

Even the Bible tells us that faith without works is dead.

On the other hand, being fear will cripple you and debar you from taking any steps towards a successful future. Worse still, it makes you loose interest in the future after all.

The idea of preparing for a glorious future is relevant in EVERY aspect of life. This is so because the first step in the process of preparation is your decision to have a glorious future in that particular endeavour… It all begins in your mind.

This is why it is imperative to feed your mind with stuff that will help you succeed.

To help you prepare for married life, I have provided a 3-part video resource for you and I strongly believe that you should watch all.

My aim is to inspire you to plan for a successful marriage. . .

In video 1, you will find out why it is important to be sure you really should get married. It will even help you reevaluate your reasons for wanting to get married.

In video 2, I highlight in clear terms what you should do while getting ready for marriage. You will learn about stuff you should talk about during courtship.

In video 3, you will learn about what to expect in the early years of marriage…

To access these videos, please click HERE

P. S. Feel free to share with all the singles on your list or among your friends… Encourage them to prepare.

Be blessed!

7 Premarital Errors To Avoid

If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do?

Laying the wrong foundation for your marriage can only land you in disaster.

I have identified some errors which can destroy your ‘happily ever after’; that you can fall into while looking forward to married life. I have chosen to share with you 7 of these errors in this video.

Watch out for these and run far from them like a plague if you don’t want to find yourself buried under the rubble of a bad marriage…


SEX IN MARRIAGE : A Message to Women

Many men complain about their wives depriving them of sex. As much as the men have a part to play in the overall health of their sex life, I have chosen to speak to women about the importance of sex in marriage. In this video, I also encourage the women to deal with the issues that might be responsible for their hatred for / lack of interest in marital sex.

This video is focused on single and married women.

This was a live broadcast and here’s the replay.


Remember to share this video with your friends… You might be saving a marriage from crashing.

Spark to Flames

Let’s take the fireplace as a case study:

You know, when you gather sticks to cook on a fireplace, for you to have a smooth cooking experience you have to continually shake off the ash from the sticks and push them further inside so that they can together give you better igniting power.

It is so with marriage too. Your marriage can get better no matter how long you have been married for or what your marriage looks like now.

Watch this video now to find out more:

This video is a replay from the webinar for married women organized by The Beautiful Branch Ministries.

Please remember to share this with your married female friends.

The Lady Princess

Who is a lady?

Whose princess are we talking about here?

Who is a lady princess?

What makes her a woman a lady princess?

What kind of man deserves her?

Find answers to these questions as you watch this video.

This video is a replay from a Webinar for singles held in the Beautiful Branches’ Facebook group with OMOSEBI Mary Omolola, PhD

Please remember to share this with your friends!


Three Stages of Marriage


•Are you married?
•Married but feeling single?
•Feel like giving up on your marriage? Wait…
•Are you single and planning to get married?

Watch this video to arm yourself with some indispensable knowledge for having a successful marriage as I share with you the three stages of marriage.

Please share this with your friends!



What You Don’t Control Will Control You

My best food as a child/teenager was beans and fried plantain. O, how I loved the combo.

You see, whenever I see plantain or perceive the aroma of fried plantain, my stomach begins to dance. Fried plantains just have a way of calling out to me. It resonates with my alimentary canal like jam on bread.

Alright, before I go on and on about my love for plantain, let me tell you the reason for relieving the moments I have had with my dear plantain.

One day when I was a teenager, I was in the kitchen frying plantain for dinner. It was my habit to put slices of fresh plantain in my mouth while I cut for subsequent frying.

I had just put a slice in my mouth when the door to the kitchen opened. Guess who made his way in?

My father whom I feared so much.

I didn’t even think twice before I swallowed the plantain in my mouth. And to think that my mother always insisted on cutting the slices really big.

The plantain got stuck in my esophagus. My father tried asking me a question but I couldn’t even talk; I only nodded. He left after a few seconds and I tried to drink water to push the plantain down but it didn’t work. I had to spit the water out because there was no passage way for it. I tried coughing it out instead all to no avail.

At last, the plantain made its way down into my stomach after some minutes. Tears rolled down my cheeks uncontrollably as my chest got numbed by pain.

I really could have died that day. But thank God for His mercies.

I suffered seizures in my throat for several YEARS afterwards. At times when I was eating, my throat would just shut down.

The aftermath of my greed was a constant reminder of my actions.

How then could I ever forget that experience. Narrating it now even gives me the shivers.

You see, it’s normal for your body to react when you see a pretty lady you like. It’s normal to have those sexual urges as a single person especially as you grow older. It’s normal for you to miss your wife so much because you are on a 1year course faraway in Europe while she is in Africa.

What’s not okay is engaging in sex with someone who is neither your wife nor husband because your body feels like having sex.

If you do this, you will choke.

Maybe not physical choking with unplanned pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.

. . . But you will be judged by the Maker of heaven and earth. And that’s the worst kind of choke you could suffer.

Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value], and the marriage bed undefiled [by immorality or by any sexual sin]; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. (HEBREWS 13:4 AMP)

The scars of sin sometimes are indelible. No sinner will go unpunished.




It is greed to lust after someone that is not yours.

You have no right to carnally desire any man/woman you are not married to.

What you do not control will surely control you.

What you need is the means to control those urges because they usually visit you without writing you an application letter. Ask for God to grant you the grace to be self-controlled.

Your obsession will kill you if not controlled.

Stop feeding your lust by exposing your heart to things that will corrupt it and push you more towards sin.

Flee all forms of sexual sins as if it were a plague. It really is a plague that will NEVER do you good.

You don’t have to indulge your body. It will not die from not having sex.

If you do not know how to say “No” to your body when it’s under some form of sexual pull, it will drive you into destruction.

This does not only apply to sexual sins but all sins generally.

Another major problem you will encounter when you engage in any form of sexual sin is that you will not have inner peace doing it.

You will live in constant fear; fear of being exposed, getting infected with STIs or getting pregnant amidst others.

I admonish you therefore friends, let your life be controlled by God.

No matter how far you have gone on the path of sin, you can always make a U-turn and decide to be sexually pure.

You can start afresh with God. All you need to is repent of your sinful ways and decide not to go back to your vomit.

The force of sin is stronger than your Will power.

You need God in your life. He is the only one that can help you.

Ask Jesus into your heart today so that you can escape the wrath of God that awaits all unrepentant sinners.

If you refuse to heed the call of God to you for repentance, you can be sure that your sins will catch up with you someday.

For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 6:23 NLT)

Choose life today!

© OMOSEBI Mary Omolola (PhD)


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