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Understanding Your Spouse

Understanding is not merely a transfer of information, but an empathy for the other person based on what he or she communicated with you. Understanding is essential in building each other’s self image. You must continually seek to comprehend the context of each other’s lives, the kind of context that helps to explain our self-image, […]

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Self Esteem (2)

Many are unaware of the great responsibility involved in parenting. We are products of our environment. When a child grows up in an environment of abuse and immorality, he/she would develop all kinds of emotional disorders. The feelings and attitudes children are exposed to, form the attitudes they embrace as adults, even if they are […]

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Self Esteem (1)

One thing that plagues more people and cripples more lives than the said heart and blood diseases, is the lack of self-esteem. Self-esteem is your perception of yourself created from the accumulation of your thoughts and experiences in life. Three majors ways through which self-esteem is developed are1. By acquiring it from your daily interactions […]

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Are You A Hopper?

Some youths enter into relationships indiscriminately. They keep hopping around without a sense of direction. They go in, have an accident with the car they’ve decided to drive by themselves without a navigation map. They are broken in pain and need a repair. They end up with endless number of scars. Hello, who sent you […]

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To rape victims. . .

  We don’t know why God allows tragedies to enter our lives, but we do know that God hurts deeply with us and loves us more than we’ll ever know. He comforts us and gives us the strength to work through our pain. LORD, you know the hopes of the helpless. Surely you will listen […]

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Hannah’s Situation

My attention is drawn to the story of Hannah as recorded in 1Samuel 1 today. Hannah had no child while her step-wife had children. She was being oppressed by this other woman. Her case seemed hopeless. Despite this, she kept serving her God. She never decided to boycott going to the temple to worship God. […]

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For Young couples. . .and maybe for the older couples too

Some of the more common areas of conflict most couples face early on include finances, in-laws, spiritual growth together, the roles of husband and wife, where to attend church, and conflict resolution. Consider a few pointers that will go a long way toward helping you and your spouse handle these challenges: 1. Ask a more […]

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Add Empathy To Your Communication

The dictionary traditionally defines understanding as “the faculty of the human mind by which it. . .comprehends the ideas which others express and intend to communicate.” Yet in the Bible, understanding is not just a transfer of information, but empathy for the other person. Consider Exodus 36:1, which tells how two craftsmen name Bezalel and […]

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Respectfully Leave Your Parents

You may have moved out of their house a long time ago, but have you really left your parents behind? God did not mince words when He instructed a married couple to leave their parents. The Hebrew word that normally gets translated ‘leave’ from Genesis 2:24 more fully means “to forsake dependence upon,” “lose,” “leave […]

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Maintaining Emotional And Moral Fidelity

For too many people, Christians included, adultery is the first step out of a marriage. An emotional or sexual attachment to someone other than your spouse creates intense passions that sabotage trust and steal marital intimacy. For that reason, God stated emphatically in the 7th Commandment, “You shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14). Adultery destroys […]

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Three Are Present

The Bible has a lot to say about the benefits of fearing God. Leviticus 19:14, for example, indicates that a healthy fear of God will motivate us to care for the needs of the disadvantaged with grace and kindness. Proverbs 22:4 tells us that fearing God leads us to life, while Proverbs 10:27 tells us […]

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Experience Is Not The Best Teacher

Yeah, you read right. . . When I was a single lady, I would speak about marriage with all authority anytime I was leading Bible studies. Someone asked me one day how come I knew so much about marriage and how I had answers available for many questions pertaining to marriage. I simply told that […]

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The Mothering Ministry

When I think about the mothering ministry, the duo that comes to mind are Lois and Eunice (2Timothy 1:5). These two were the grandmother and mother of Timothy.  The genuine faith which Apostle Paul could perceive in Timothy had a source. Even if Timothy was opportuned to get his faith strengthened later, it all started […]

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Don’t Ignore The Danger Signs

  You find some people complaining about their spouses and if you take time to dig very well into the underlying issues, you will find out that the exact thing they are complaining about didn’t just come to be. It has been right there all along; although most times as the smaller version. They saw […]

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Pray As You Go!

    Don’t miss out on any chance to talk to God and to hear Him talk back to you. Prayer is as simple as that. No one should give excuses of not having enough time to pray. You don’t always have to shout your prayers out. Nothing stops you from praying Pray without ceasing […]

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Add Some Feminine Skills To Your Profile

Yes, be open to new things. Learn. Pay for those skills if you have to. Don’t overlook the things you ought to learn when you can. Never let an opportunity to become a better woman pass you by.  I have heard of ladies who do not know how to cook. Some don’t like it either. […]

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Body Packaging

Our bodies are supposed to be correctly and adequately packaged. When you package something, you wrap it. Packaging is to present (someone or something) in an attractive or advantageous way. When you package yourself, you should be attractive in a positive way.  When I look at ladies’ dressing these days, I marvel. Sometimes stunned by […]

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O Thou Priest……. Check Your Garment

God chose the priests Himself. He picks who works for Him and what the person wears. As long as you are a christian, you are a priest. A priest’s garment, which is the uniform of the Kingdom of God is for beauty, honour, glory and dignity (Exodus 28).  Your dressing must bring honour. It has […]

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A Real Storybook Finish

Do you want a marriage that both of you find fulfilling, satisfying, and sometimes thrilling? Then do in your marriage what the apostle Paul advises in Philippians 2:3-4. “Esteem one another better than yourself, looking out not only for your own interests, but for the interests of your spouse.” Imagine if Abraham had done this […]

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