For a start, why should we abstain from sex as singles? Why is it that despite the fact that chastity campaigns are increasing, the abstinence mentality is declining so rapidly? That sex has now been reduced to everything “carnal”. So yeah let’s get back to the basics – Why should we abstain? Is it […]
Category: Marriage Matters
Do Looks Matter?
TGIF… Let me share this with you… I woke up this morning, had my devotion and afterwards headed to the kitchen to prepare the food our children would take to school. I was about to head to the bathroom so that I could get dressed and take the children to their school when I […]
Why Is She The Only One Responsible?
There is this popular Yoruba saying usually made as a way of instruction to wives especially young wives which goes thus: “Ile oko, ile eko ni”. This is loosely translated as “Your husband’s house is a school”. No wonder it is usually only the woman that is expected to bend herself over backward and […]
🤳✍️ Learn from the Grizzly 👴👵
After an exciting time of chit chatting with colleagues and friends at the end of a workday. I was headed home and whilst in the cab, I starred out of the window (I love to do this as it stirs my thoughts). A lot of things crossed my mind in the process and for a […]
😱 WHEN THE WOW ISN’T ALL WOW 🤔
Have you ever had a view on something and even from afar off, you are really thrilled and to make it really interesting but saddening you get closer and you have a different view of the thing in question and you are not so wowed about it any longer. Let me share one of […]
My Letter to The Marriage Counselor
Dear Church Marriage Counselor, I would have had you at least partly to blame because of your shabby counseling sessions about a decade ago if my marriage was problematic today. (Thank God we sought and are seeking knowledge via other means before and after the wedding which seemed to have been your focus back then). […]
A Special Kind of Love
There is an odd truth concerning love and marriage. Understanding it is an important key in making marriage and other relationships work. The truth is this: we don’t have the ability to really love without the power of the Holy Spirit working through us. Our capacity to love is based on God giving us […]
Different From the Rest
Let me put a saying by nineteenth-century churchman Horace Bushnell in the language of marriage: “No married couple is ever called to be another. God has as many plans for married couples as He has couples; and, therefore, He never requires them to measure their life by any other couple.” You comprise one-half of a […]
Whether You Are Caught Or Not
I remember back in high school how some students would take other students’ water in the hostel because there was water scarcity and rejoice that they were able to do so without being caught. It was called tapping… They would say, “Tapping is a game until you are caught, then it becomes a sin”. It […]
Mutual Responsibility Is Required
Marriage at its best is a relationship so close and intimate that the two of you work together as one. It involves mutual trust, mutual support, mutual defense, mutual comfort, mutual vulnerability and mutual responsibility. Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the […]
7 Premarital Errors To Avoid
If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Laying the wrong foundation for your marriage can only land you in disaster. I have identified some errors which can destroy your ‘happily ever after’; that you can fall into while looking forward to married life. I have chosen to share with you 7 of […]
Why Marry When You Can Stay Single?
What is marriage all about? For real, must everyone get married? I’ve got answers to these questions in this video… Make sure to note the points raised in this video to assure yourself of having a successful single or married life; whichever you choose. WATCH THE VIDEO NOW
SEX IN MARRIAGE : A Message to Women
Many men complain about their wives depriving them of sex. As much as the men have a part to play in the overall health of their sex life, I have chosen to speak to women about the importance of sex in marriage. In this video, I also encourage the women to deal with the issues […]
Spark to Flames
Let’s take the fireplace as a case study: You know, when you gather sticks to cook on a fireplace, for you to have a smooth cooking experience you have to continually shake off the ash from the sticks and push them further inside so that they can together give you better igniting power. It is […]
Three Stages of Marriage
•Are you married? •Married but feeling single? •Feel like giving up on your marriage? Wait… •Are you single and planning to get married? Watch this video to arm yourself with some indispensable knowledge for having a successful marriage as I share with you the three stages of marriage. Please share this with your friends! […]
LOVE LIKE NO OTHER
Download this Book FREE Do you love Love Stories like I do? Then you should get a copy of this book. In this book is the account of my best love experience ever. What people are saying about LOVE LIKE NO OTHER I was blessed reading “Love like no other” When I […]
You Are Being Watched
I recently watched one of the short films by Mount Zion Film ministries where the husband who was a ‘pastor’ was always abusive and treating the wife badly. On a particular Sunday morning, this ‘pastor’ called the wife useless because she didn’t prepare him breakfast before leaving the house for church. The wife too had […]
Relationships On Purpose
People get married for so many reasons and when the reasons of both partners do not synchronize there is bound to be problems in that kind of relationship. Planning to get married? Great! Don’t stop there though. Plan to stay married. Knowing why you are getting married in the first instance will help you achieve […]
Be Responsible
“Wow. Congratulations! You are now a responsible man.” How many times exactly have I heard that statement being made to a newly married person especially the men? I have definitely lost count. Excuse me. . . What does it even mean to be responsible? Does it then mean that a single person cannot or should […]
Summary – Building a Beautiful Marriage
Looking at our world today, it is rather sad what marriages look like. There are so many troubled marriages. Divorce rate is on the increase. Domestic violence is the order of the day. Many wish they never married their spouses. Many people are going through serious issues in their marriages away from the eye of […]
