For a start, why should we abstain from sex as singles? Why is it that despite the fact that chastity campaigns are increasing, the abstinence mentality is declining so rapidly? That sex has now been reduced to everything “carnal”. So yeah let’s get back to the basics – Why should we abstain? Is it […]
Category: Relationship Matters
Do Looks Matter?
TGIF… Let me share this with you… I woke up this morning, had my devotion and afterwards headed to the kitchen to prepare the food our children would take to school. I was about to head to the bathroom so that I could get dressed and take the children to their school when I […]
Restored To Factory Settings
Growing up as a child, I wasn’t accustomed to being expressive with my feelings. Hugs were not the in-thing. Neither was the use of endearing words like “I love you”, “You’re my darling”, etc I guess this kinda got me confused when I got older. I wasn’t really sure what my love language was […]
Arrogantly Presumptuous
Sometime last year, we had to change the tap in the kitchen because it got bad. My husband asked the plumber to get a new one. The guy came in one afternoon with a beautiful tap. It looked really fancy but my mind was telling me it wasn’t a durable one and that the […]
🤳✍️ Learn from the Grizzly 👴👵
After an exciting time of chit chatting with colleagues and friends at the end of a workday. I was headed home and whilst in the cab, I starred out of the window (I love to do this as it stirs my thoughts). A lot of things crossed my mind in the process and for a […]
😱 WHEN THE WOW ISN’T ALL WOW 🤔
Have you ever had a view on something and even from afar off, you are really thrilled and to make it really interesting but saddening you get closer and you have a different view of the thing in question and you are not so wowed about it any longer. Let me share one of […]
Enjoy It While It Lasts
There is this perception that I have developed over time with relation to my relationships and it helps me set my attitude towards my partner right. I have decided to enjoy my relationships for as long as they last. Yeah. You might think that that is a weird attitude but it just makes me […]
Know Your Blood Type (group, genotype, rhesus factor)
During my PhD research field work, one of the children that was a subject in my clinical trials was very sickly and wasn’t responding well to treatment. The infant was subjected to a blood test and that was when it was discovered that the child’s genotype was SS. Right there in the hospital upon […]
🌸💎**VERY EXPENSIVE YET FAKE**🥀🙇
Smiles… You are wondering what I am cooking up again I guess.. ☺ “Very expensive yet Fake” came to my thought and I couldn’t help but ponder more on it. Very Expensive yet fake, is simply giving someone that which seem priceless or let me say out of the norms but yet it’s all fake. […]
My Letter to The Marriage Counselor
Dear Church Marriage Counselor, I would have had you at least partly to blame because of your shabby counseling sessions about a decade ago if my marriage was problematic today. (Thank God we sought and are seeking knowledge via other means before and after the wedding which seemed to have been your focus back then). […]
Before you say, “I do”
There are things that every single person needs to know and do before they say “I do” to that person they wish to spend the rest of their lives with, but usually are ignored. Laying the right foundation for your marriage is essential for having a successful marriage. The information in this video is not […]
Who Do You Let Into Your Ship?
While running my Master’s degree programme, I lived in one of the school hostels. The block adjacent ours was occupied by some guys. There was a particular room on that block, where the occupants were always blasting music anytime there was electric power supply. One day, I just started humming one of the songs […]
Whether You Are Caught Or Not
I remember back in high school how some students would take other students’ water in the hostel because there was water scarcity and rejoice that they were able to do so without being caught. It was called tapping… They would say, “Tapping is a game until you are caught, then it becomes a sin”. It […]
BE FULLY PREPARED FOR SUCCESS
“By failing to prepare you are preparing to fail”. Do you know that statement? In case you didn’t know, it is true. Yeah, that statement right up there is very true. When people look into their future, they have one of two reactions. The first reaction you can have about your future is that of […]
7 Premarital Errors To Avoid
If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Laying the wrong foundation for your marriage can only land you in disaster. I have identified some errors which can destroy your ‘happily ever after’; that you can fall into while looking forward to married life. I have chosen to share with you 7 of […]
Why Marry When You Can Stay Single?
What is marriage all about? For real, must everyone get married? I’ve got answers to these questions in this video… Make sure to note the points raised in this video to assure yourself of having a successful single or married life; whichever you choose. WATCH THE VIDEO NOW
Self Esteem
Find out why having a healthy self-esteem is of essence and how you can build your self-esteem in this video. Know people who you think should see this video too? Share this with them. Watch the video NOW
SEX IN MARRIAGE : A Message to Women
Many men complain about their wives depriving them of sex. As much as the men have a part to play in the overall health of their sex life, I have chosen to speak to women about the importance of sex in marriage. In this video, I also encourage the women to deal with the issues […]
Spark to Flames
Let’s take the fireplace as a case study: You know, when you gather sticks to cook on a fireplace, for you to have a smooth cooking experience you have to continually shake off the ash from the sticks and push them further inside so that they can together give you better igniting power. It is […]
