I am aware of the fact that many people find it odd telling their spiritual leaders about a relationship they are intending to start. They prefer to inform them later on. However I am of the opinion that they should be informed early enough. There are certain advantages of informing your spiritual leaders early about […]
Category: Relationship Matters
Beyond Marrying In God’s Will
Many people ask why their marriage is not what they wish it would be despite the fact that they married in God’s will. It’s simple- the devil does not want your marriage to work. It is therefore your duty to fight for your marriage. Having a successful marriage is no joke, “only the violent take […]
Evaluation Time
So, has being in that relationship of yours brought you closer to God or taken you away from Him? If the latter is the case, it’s time to redress. God’s gift is always perfect. A God given relationship can only help you become better on your road towards perfection. Nobody can take God’s place in […]
The Beginning Of The End Of The Rest Of Your Life
The day you enter a wrong marriage marks the beginning of the end of your joy, peace, success, health, . . . name it. My heart leaps when it comes to the point of vow exchange at weddings. I wonder if the couple really understand what they are getting themselves into. To me, that is […]
To the unmarried, write:
My heart bleeds when I hear about or see all these failing marriages. The foundation is usually the source of the problem. If the foundation of your marriage is faulty, you are in for serious trouble. Many people are so in a hurry to be called married that they fail to ensure that the foundation […]
Are You A Hopper?
Some youths enter into relationships indiscriminately. They keep hopping around without a sense of direction. They go in, have an accident with the car they’ve decided to drive by themselves without a navigation map. They are broken in pain and need a repair. They end up with endless number of scars. Hello, who sent you […]
Experience Is Not The Best Teacher
Yeah, you read right. . . When I was a single lady, I would speak about marriage with all authority anytime I was leading Bible studies. Someone asked me one day how come I knew so much about marriage and how I had answers available for many questions pertaining to marriage. I simply told that […]
Don’t Ignore The Danger Signs
You find some people complaining about their spouses and if you take time to dig very well into the underlying issues, you will find out that the exact thing they are complaining about didn’t just come to be. It has been right there all along; although most times as the smaller version. They saw it […]
Hath Thou Clean?
Yeah, I’m talking to you. Are you clean? Spotless? Without wrinkle? Have you kept yourself away from every form of defilement? Are you still 100% committed to your spouse? So many questions, right? We are in a world where defilement enters the same bus or plane as you everyday. It works in your office. Walks […]
Let’s talk Chastity! (2)
Still on the issue of chastity. This time around the focus is on the married. O yes, before you ask, chastity concerns the married too. Chastity within the confines of marriage means you don’t do anything to violate your marriage either with someone other than your spouse (adultery) or with yourself (pornography). Your marriage is honourable […]
Let’s Talk Chastity! (1)
Sadly, this topic is turning into a ‘not so fancy’ topic as the days go by (Sigh). Chastity is sexual purity. It is a virtuous character. It is purity in conduct and intention (action and thought alike). Chastity concerns everyone, married or unmarried.Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers […]
A Working Relationship With God Births A Working Relationship With Man
The Word of God is health and life not only to our soul, but also to the marrow of our bones. God has taught me that His word is alive and powerful. When someone shares a verse from His Word, God wants us to actively incorporate it into our thoughts. We shouldn’t just read His […]
Marry God’s Friend
I have read and heard many people who advice that one thing that makes marriage work is to marry your friend. But this theory has failed many. They marry this so-called friend and he begins to act like a stranger. They begin to wonder where the person they thought they knew and got married […]
