Hello 👋 I trust that your weekend is going on well. People often claim that marrying your friend is the way to ensure you have a successful marriage. However, In my latest video, I talked about why marrying your friend does not guarantee a happy marriage. I also share the best thing to do in […]
Tag: Relationships
Here’s Why I Married The Wealthiest Suitor
Hello 👋 I trust that your week is off to a great start. In my latest video, I share my journey of choosing the right partner and why I chose to marry the wealthiest of my suitors. Growing up with a tough childhood, I aspired to a life of comfort and growth, and in the […]
Restored To Factory Settings
Growing up as a child, I wasn’t accustomed to being expressive with my feelings. Hugs were not the in-thing. Neither was the use of endearing words like “I love you”, “You’re my darling”, etc I guess this kinda got me confused when I got older. I wasn’t really sure what my love language was […]
Podcast Ep 6 (Friends for a Season? )
For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. . . Did you know that this applies to your relationships too? Every relationship has a lifespan and a purpose to fulfill and once this is done with, there is nothing you can do to keep such a relationship in place. Listen […]
Arrogantly Presumptuous
Sometime last year, we had to change the tap in the kitchen because it got bad. My husband asked the plumber to get a new one. The guy came in one afternoon with a beautiful tap. It looked really fancy but my mind was telling me it wasn’t a durable one and that the […]
Enjoy It While It Lasts
There is this perception that I have developed over time with relation to my relationships and it helps me set my attitude towards my partner right. I have decided to enjoy my relationships for as long as they last. Yeah. You might think that that is a weird attitude but it just makes me […]
Who Do You Let Into Your Ship?
While running my Master’s degree programme, I lived in one of the school hostels. The block adjacent ours was occupied by some guys. There was a particular room on that block, where the occupants were always blasting music anytime there was electric power supply. One day, I just started humming one of the songs […]
Communicate and Take Dressing
I will like to share with you two incidences that occurred in my marriage; to let you know or further reiterate to you how important communication is in relationships and how you should react to sensitive issues when raised. The first incidence: There was a lady who was really close to my husband. They’d been […]
BE FULLY PREPARED FOR SUCCESS
“By failing to prepare you are preparing to fail”. Do you know that statement? In case you didn’t know, it is true. Yeah, that statement right up there is very true. When people look into their future, they have one of two reactions. The first reaction you can have about your future is that of […]
7 Premarital Errors To Avoid
If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Laying the wrong foundation for your marriage can only land you in disaster. I have identified some errors which can destroy your ‘happily ever after’; that you can fall into while looking forward to married life. I have chosen to share with you 7 of […]
Why Marry When You Can Stay Single?
What is marriage all about? For real, must everyone get married? I’ve got answers to these questions in this video… Make sure to note the points raised in this video to assure yourself of having a successful single or married life; whichever you choose. WATCH THE VIDEO NOW
One Goal, Different Approaches
One day, I watched my husband’s style of ironing shirts and I was wondering just how much different it was from how I do mine. I then told him, “My father did not teach me to iron men’s shirts the way you are ironing them right now.” I explained how I was taught to do […]
Not Perfect After All
A short while ago I stumbled on a friend’s post on Facebook and I was almost going to faint at the sight. I mean, this guy is someone I know his story so well. The thing is that he beats his wife blue-black. Yet on this particular day he went on and on gushing about […]
Relationships On Purpose
People get married for so many reasons and when the reasons of both partners do not synchronize there is bound to be problems in that kind of relationship. Planning to get married? Great! Don’t stop there though. Plan to stay married. Knowing why you are getting married in the first instance will help you achieve […]
Relationships: Forever or Not
I met an old classmate of mine recently. We hadn’t seen each other in about twenty years. We have exchanged birthday greetings on Facebook over the last four years though. Then I remembered how we were always talking then. It was then that I had a swift journey into my past. I checked out the […]
Dear Women. . .
I want us to learn something from a woman in the Bible to whom I am endeared. She is the woman in the book of Song of Solomon- the Shulamite. The Shulamite told her man what she wanted from him. You may want to read the Song of Solomon to see for yourself. Many of […]
A Deadly Choice of a Spouse
When I was still single, one of my suitors was this guy who got himself disqualified because of just one action. I had even decided to pray to God about his proposal when he committed the blunder that blew his chances of me considering starting a relationship with him. I can say that we were […]
Celebrate Your Love
It so happens that my husband’s birthday and our wedding anniversary are exactly 7days apart so i normally put up posts to celebrate both on Facebook. Last year, someone on my friend list made a comment on the birthday post I had put up to celebrate my husband. This person said I should not ‘proclaim’ […]
