It’s usually difficult to accept other people for who they are, especially those you dislike, think are not on the same pedestal with you or think don’t have the same values as you. The solution to this hard puzzle is to see them through God’s eyes!
Accept other believers who are weak in faith, and don’t argue with them about what they think is right or wrong……Thos e who feel free to eat anything must not look down on those who don’t. And those who don’t eat certain foods must not condemn those who do, for God has accepted them. (Rom 14vs 1&3)
Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory. (Rom 15vs7)
Pray for the grace to accept your spouse, sibling, parent, colleague, neighbour, church member,…especially the hard ones (so that God may be glorified). The world will then see your good works and give glory to your father in heaven who has helped you crack the hard nut of acceptance.