People get married for so many reasons and when the reasons of both partners do not synchronize there is bound to be problems in that kind of relationship.
Planning to get married? Great!
Don’t stop there though.
Plan to stay married.
Knowing why you are getting married in the first instance will help you achieve the aim of staying happily married.
I have been so keen on this purpose issue for several years now. After having read a number of books on the importance of knowing the purpose of your existence and things you want to embark on back then, the issue of purpose discovery has been something I take very seriously.
And I believe you should too.
You must know the purpose of marriage and then balance it up by marrying someone who also knows very well the purpose of marriage.
If someone who wants to stay married marries someone who does not want to, there will be a catastrophe.
What am I saying to you in essence?
Make sure you pursue purpose above every other thing.
. . .and make sure to marry someone who is ready to pursue a like passion.
Can two walk together except they agree? I guess you must know the answer.
This does not apply only to marriage relationships but all relationships for that matter.
Invest your time in building purposeful relationships ONLY.
Doing otherwise is a complete waste of your precious time.
- OMOSEBI Mary Omolola (PhD)